Dat i think is like the most thought of question by any couple. Getting married is a big thing and not sumting small as it involves not only you but another person's life too. Its also moving into another newer phase in your life.
Getting married is also sumting one just want to go thru once. So how can one know if the guy/gal he/she is with now is the perfect person or better known as our other half? Sumone dat we love and willing to spend our lives with till death do us part? sumone dat we want to
be-father/be-mother our next generation?
Gosh! other than examinations, i think saying yes when one proposes to us is also difficult! it is burdensome. On one hand you dun want to dissapoint the other person and on the other hand, you dun want to dissapoint yourself in the future.
Talked with my colleague from Ettusais counter just now bout her marriage. Asked her how she know her husband now is the one she wants to spend her whole life with. She has known her husband for 8 years in total and is married for 7 months.
She said to me that eventhough we might have an ideal image of our future wife/husband, we might not get what we want in reality. We might say that we dun like sumone dat is short or hairy but in the end, we might get married to sumone dat is short and hairy. lol
I believe we can find Love in the most unexpected places. For example we might find love while we are stuck in a lift, when we are buying fish in a market or even when we are rushing to go to work and our hair is all messed up.
You can't plan where you want to fall in love. Actually i dun tink you can find love. For instance, when you want to find a bf/gf, it is always hard but when you are not looking for a bf/gf, there seems to be lots of suitable people dat want to be your bf/gf. So its more like Love finds you and not the other way round.
But of coz, i still have not get the answer to how can we know the person we are with now is the right one? All married people i ask would say, "You would just know it when the time comes."
Yea right, as if that helps! So for now i can only make my own conclusions..
Shafiq-Jjang say You would know he/she is the right one if..
:you dun mind how ugly or sloppy he/she looks when he/she just wakes up
:you find his/her fart not smelly or disgusting to you
:you dun feel tired of seeing his/her face everyday
:you find him/her digging her nose cute instead of disgusting
Well dats four that i can think of now.haha
So how do you know that he/she is your right one?
Kamsa Hamnida!
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