Celebrating with friends is fun but i bet its more fun celebrating with sumone you love rite? Not making things up but as i was looking at the stunning fireworks lighting up the night sky, my mind was filled with thoughts and images of how a couple would wish each other"Happy New Year!!".
Between friends, it would be like"Happy New Year!! I am lucky and happy to have known you and would be more happy if i can be your friend for years to come" that kinda ting rite?
Correct me if i'm wrong(never been in a relationship before), i imagine a couple wishing "Happy New Year" to each other differently.
I imagine them looking at each other eyes witout saying a word but in their heart they know that they both are recalling all the happy moments they had ever since they both have entered each other lives. Ignoring the world for a moment and being totaly immerse into their own world. Not also forgetting the sad, emotional moments. Where one would have done something wrong and the other would be crying non-stop feeling hurt. True Love Doesn't Run Smooth you know.
Feeling how blessed they are to have each other and hoping that next year, they would still belong to each other. I imagine them to then hug each other passionately and then look at each other's eyes again and one of them would mouth "I Love You" and the other would mouth back "I know and I Love You Too" and they would then seal it with a passionate kiss with the beautiful fireworks as a backdrop. Well, action speaks LOUDER than words rite?haha. My imagination good huh?haha.
I know i have posted about me not supporting teenagers around my age to be in relationship as we are not matured enough and all. If you guys forgot or have not read it, hereit is.Some of you guys might think that i am contradicting. Well i think so too la.haha. But lets just say i had a change of mind.
People say being in a failed relationship makes you more matured and all. Well maybe its true coz people learn thru experience rite. For example, if we were to learn sumting new like planting a plant for example. If sumone just explain to us how to do it by saying we must place the seed....etc.etc, we would not understand fully like we would if they were to show us how exactly its to be done rite.
I have also came across a few quotes that is meaningful.
"And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."
This is so true. We tend to take people for granted when they are with us. Well we are but Human. Only when the person leave us will we then feel lonely and feel the deep-ness of the 3 words we like to say so much witout knowing what it really means. When we say I Love You to sumone, in our mind we think that its ok to say this 3 words because we know we love him/her and it ends like that. We dun really know how much we love them until they leave us. When they are no longer with you, you will then realise that you really love them that you are willing to do everything for them. Although its foolish, maybe you are willing to die if you are not with them. Well Love Has No Boundaries.
"Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit."
I dun really know how true this is as like i said, i have never been in a relationship which equals to not feeling any special kind of love yet. Not the love towards family members but the feeling of love towards a lover. People do say that the feeling of being in love is out of the world and i have yet to feel that. But it doesn't mean that i dun want to feel it. People also do say that, eventhou being in love is a hard ting to do, they still dun regret it.
"In every living thing there is the desire for love."
This is definitely true. Ask anyone and they will definitely say they want to be loved eventhough they might not want to love. Humans are the most selfish creatures you know. Let me ask you guys a question.
Are you guys willing to love but not be loved or willing to be loved but not to love?
For me i rather be loved but not to love. Like i said, Human are selfish and i am human if you guys might not know yet.haha. For me i rather receive the love rather than giving the love. I rather be the blessed one and receive the love coz i'm the type that likes to be pampered. Who knows, one day the feeling might be mutual. Love grows with time they say.
We must also be ready to open up our hearts to new opportunities. Most people who have gone thru many failed relationships tend to be afraid to fall in love again as they are scared the new person might be the same like the previous one. Well we have to learn to forget. The Past Does Not Equal To The Future. Who knows that this new one might be The One.
Lastly, what had me changed my opinion about teenagers relationship is that i put daily situation to use. For instance, when we go shopping, most of us want to try a number of outfits first before picking the right one because we one to know which design suits us best and which one is worth the price. Only after that can we confidently pick out the best one that suits us and be happy about it. That's how i want to find my other half.
I dun want to be impulsive coz most of the time when i was impulsive while doing my shopping, i tend to regret. Only after buying the outfit would i then find a better one. Just 3 days back when i was shopping for a tie(for work,Isetan very lame), i just went off to 77th Street to get the tie selling for $18.90 i tink and i found out that the exact same tie of the same quality is selling for $10 at my secret shopping hideout.Heart pain lor.
Ok back to my main point, i want to be able to be in love with people of different characters before making a decision to which one suits me best. I dun want to regret and have a fling after i get married. Divorce cases to high oready. Plus, i dun want to live life with regrets. It is impossible to live life with no regrets coz we are human, but i want to live life with as little regrets as possible.
So my stand now is eventhough you are a teenager, as long as you are prepared, its not wrong to fall in love. As much as we only want to feel the sweetness of life, the bitterness of life is what makes us stronger:D
Kamsa Hamnida!
S
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