Gentlemen?
Let me tell you this, being a gentlemen has nothing to do with carrying the girls bag. It might appear gentlemenly to be carrying the girls bag but its more like being a dog instead. Men can be a gentlemen by the policy of ladies first. So just let the girl go up the escalator first, pull out her chair for her and let her choose the menu first. There is no need for guys to act like a dog by carrying the girls bag for her.
Whose bag is it anyway?
Plus, the bag is the girl's. Meaning all the stuff they put in there belongs to them. So why must the guys carry a bag that do not have their belongings in it? Just like if person A is the one who ate the steak, so why must person B who did not touch the steak at all pay for it?
Bag to heavy?
The number one reason why girls bag are always so heavy is because they carry unnecessary items in it. Their bags are filled mostly with cosmetics. If possible, they would love to bring the whole dresser in their bag for touching up later. Some girls after they sweat or their make up melt, they will go to the Ladies and smack more compact powder on their face. Aren't they afraid their pores might clog? One more thing i dun understand about girls is that they have been given the option to bring big bag and big bags i think are the IN thing now. So i can't understand why they cannot spare some room in their oversized bag for an umbrella. Most of my girl-friends when we go out, they will bring a very bag big but they always leave the most important thing like an umbrella out. Isn't the function of a bag is for you to put important useful stuff in it?
Woman a Weakling?
For dunnoe how many generations or the whole existence of man-kind, woman has always been labelled as the weakling. Woman are the most sensitive, the most weakest and much more. So, by asking a guy to carry your bag for you, isn't dat making more evidence that woman are really a weakling? Even if the guy is the one who offered to carry your bag, why can't you speak up and say that you want to carry your bag yourself. Plus, woman nowadays want to prove to men that they can do what men can do. So maybe this little details of carrying your bag yourself might help? From my point of view, MEN likes WOMAN who are more independent.
So please ladies, dun ask us guys to carry your bag for you. And please Guys, dun be a dog and say yes to every wish of your girl.
p/s: Not carrying a girl's bag for her doesn't make you any less a gentlemen.
p/s: this post is not meant to discriminate the ladies.:D
Kamsa hamnida!
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