-a person who feigns some desirable or publicly approved attitude, esp. one whose private life, opinions, or statements belie his or her public statements
I think i have blogged about the subject hypocritical a few times oready lor.hhaa. What to do, so many hypocrites out there. I bold 'statements belie his or her public statements' as definitely you guys especially teenagers like me have lent your ears to sumone dat bitch about another sumone to you but the next day goes to the sumone they bitched about and act all nice to them? GET IT?
For example person A called you and bitched about person B. Saying dat she has big fat thighs and she should not wear FBT. Saying how she hates person B. However the next day or one particular day, she goes to person B and talk nicely to her. Laugh and crack jokes about other people. You guys have gone thru dat right? Then in your mind, you would be thinking "Wa, ytd bitched about her then today best friends oready ah?".
That is one example of Hypocrites. Actually everyone in this world are Hypocrites.Its just who we are being hypocritical to and how hypocritical we are dat differs us. I myself admit dat i am hypocritical. But, i am hypocritical to people who dun deserve my sincere friendship or treatment.
Come on, would you want to be friends or treat sumone dat bitches and tells her/his so called bestfriends secrets to sumbody else? When sumbody tells you a secret, it means they entrust you with it and a sign to show they trust you wat. Should'nt you feel touched and hold on to the secret?
For example person C tells person A secrets as person A said dat person C is her/his bestfriend and person C felt the same way too. Person A however called person B and told him/her all of person C secrets. Telling person B all the bad characteristics of person C.
Definitely you would know dat person A is not sumone trustworthy and you would not want to have a friend like dat right.
I learned this phrase from a cartoon called Clifford The Big Red Dog. In the show, Clifford said dat True friends cares about a friends feeling even when he/she is not there.
True right? it means, eventhough your friend is not there with you. You should still care about her feelings. You would know dat if you were to gossip about her, she would feel sad if she gets to know about it. Plus, you definitely wouldn't want to be treated the same way right? so You should treat people the way you want to be treated.
Its like Karma. If you treat sumone cruelly, one day you would be treated the same way too.
However i think you can be hypocritical to people like the earlier mentioned person A. Why should you treat sumone dat bitches about her bestfriend nicely right?
And i cannot stand how friends fight and then when they get back together, they dunnoe what the other party said about them during the duration of the argument. My experience is dat this classmate of mine argued with their bestfriend about a stupid reason. One thing girls always argue about is guys. If your girl-friend has more guys friends then you, you get jealous-.-So when they argued, my classmates said dat they are very dissapointed in her and would not want to be friends with each other again. How they do not want to see the scrawny slutty face of hers ever again. After a few months, you got to know that they are friends again.
I find dat very funny. Like you see the new pictures of them happily smiling together but in your heart you know dat they once bitched like there is no tomorrow before. Ya forgive and forget you say? but isn't it pointless to renew the friendship after an ugly argument even if you have already forgive and forget? isn't it pointless to renew the friendship when sumting so minor can cause you guys to argue with each other and say horrible tings about each other?
For me, i would definitely forgive and forget like any cancerians but i would rather move on then be friends again. Cause in my heart i know dat if i were to be friends with him/her again, i would feel guilty as i had bitched and told people his secrets. So why would i want to put myself thru dat agony?
Its up to individuals anw. Now i have admitted dat i am a hypocrite so you bitches out there can say openly that i am a hypocrite and not have to silently tell people dat i am a hypocrite.
One tip- If you want to gossip about sumone. Make sure you dun gossip about the sumone to a friend of the sumone. Common sense wat.
Kamsa Hamnida!
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Labels: gossips, hypocrites, karma
